Walk well as a companion
We all make various acquaintances throughout our lives—people who come into our circle for a season and then move on. With some, we’re content to let them go. But with others, we’re not. Once an acquaintance turns into true friendship, we hold on more tightly to that friend. A friend is a “favoured companion,” for whom we feel “affection or esteem.”1 Why is a friend favoured? Most likely, it has much to do with how we feel when we’re with him or her. A friend accepts us as we are and is patient with our faults. A friend points out our strengths and rejoices at our successes. A friend’s presence and listening ear fill a void in us and give our lives a sense of validation and greater depth.
Do you have such a friend? Do you know how to be that friend? The resources on this page can help you recognise the need for friendship and develop the attributes that will make you a treasured friend to others.
A friend is always loyal,
and a brother is born to help in time of need. (Proverbs 17:17 NLT)
- Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary, 11th ed. (Springfield, Mass.: Merriam-Webster, 2007), see “friend.”
- A Sheltering Tree Charles R. Swindoll
- Being a True Friend Colleen Swindoll-Thompson
- Hidden Heroes Charles R. Swindoll
- Hope for Survival Charles R. Swindoll
- How Do I Respond to Someone Who Has Hurt Me? Biblical Counselling Ministry
- In All Things Give Thanks Terry Boyle
- In Defence of the Helpless Charles R. Swindoll
- Needed Today: A Ministry of Encouragement Charles R. Swindoll
- Relating-With Our Friends Charles R. Swindoll
- The Biblical Basis for Encouragement Charles R. Swindoll